We frightened ourselves with one number

We saw a low number on the incubator screen, searched it before asking anyone and scared ourselves badly. The number was not what we thought it was.

A NICU display may show the incubator setting, a skin reading or something else entirely. The first question should be: what is this number measuring?

The incubator is doing a job for them

Babies born early lose heat easily and may not yet hold their own temperature. The incubator takes over that job while their body catches up.

The nurses adjust it gradually while checking the baby. From outside, slow changes can look worrying. Inside the plan, slow and controlled may be exactly the point.

Eventually the screen looked like progress

Once we understood what we were seeing, changes to the incubator stopped feeling like random danger signals. They showed Ari slowly taking over more of the work herself.

Ask what the number means, what range the nurses want and what change they are waiting for. Thirty seconds with the nurse is kinder to your nerves than an hour with a search engine.

Call your doctor if

  • Nobody has explained a reading that's worrying you
  • She feels cold, mottled or unusually pale to you
  • You're at home and her temperature is low or high
  • Anything about her has changed and you can't get an answer